Relax in the knowing™
Name anything you want in life. More happiness? Better relationships? More fulfilling work?
Did you know that whether you have a chance of manifesting it or bringing it into your reality or not, ultimately depends on ONE thing... your BELIEF.
It's so true! Why? Because your beliefs impact your thoughts, feelings and actions, which ultimately get you RESULTS in life.
And what are the RESULTS?
So let’s say you have a belief, “I’m not good enough.” (I'm raising my hand. I've said this in various situations throughout the years.)
Then that belief gives rise to limiting thought patterns.
You then find yourself saying things to yourself that are aligned with that limiting belief. And how does not FEEL? Not good.
So then here you are not feeling good and what happens is you make choices, behavior and actions based on what you believe, think and feel.
So then you get limiting results – you get challenges in your life, work, relationships, money, all kinds of things start showing up.
And then you look at those results and then you say, “oh, you see, it’s true. I’m not good enough or capable or life is against me.”
Have you ever said something similar, my friend, when life seems to SHOW you results of your limiting beliefs?
At the core, it's important to understand that your limiting beliefs are a contradiction to who you really are.
Think of your beliefs as your Superpower. Heal your limiting beliefs and the world, YOUR world, opens up for you.
LOVE NOTE: Beautiful friend, we can review some of your TOP challenges and limitations and how to begin transcending them in a Soul Purpose Session. Learn more about a Soul Purpose Session today >>
So, lovely, whatever the beliefs are that are holding your back from living the life you truly want, deserve, and your soul is calling you to step into...
The answer is always to empower yourself through your thoughts first, shift what you believe if it does not work for you and LIVE the empowered life you're meant for.
As always, relax in the knowing.
Let's talk challenges!
There's no way around it, challenges and the conditioning we experience growing up that contribute to our limiting beliefs that keep up feeling small in life, is just part of the gig of being human.
I've learned though, that both our challenges and conditioning serve a sacred purpose for our souls as well as have an amazing impact on our daily lives — for better or for worse depending on the VIEW we have. (And we're on this Empowered Lifeview™ journey together, my friend.)
I've heard from many of you in my community.
"Challenges" are a BIG part of what we desire to understand and transcend.
It's no wonder. They are not enjoyable. I don't like challenges as much as the next woman, however, I've learned to see challenges from my soul's perspective and it's changed everything.
A NEW, empowered take on challenges...
Do you want to know what's amazing?
It is our challenges and limiting beliefs that we are conditioned with that AID and GUIDE in our awakening.
And as a soul who comes here with the desire to awaken to itself — and to learn, heal, grow, and contribute — and enjoy this amazing human journey, it uses challenges and our limiting beliefs, in part, to guide us to do so!
See how YOU can begin to transcend your unique challenges in a Soul Purpose Session >>
So, rather than curse your challenges, take a deep breath, step back, and ask...
"what is this calling me to do or be in this moment?"
"what aspect about my true divine nature (as a loving aspect of God/Source/Universe) must I cultivate and practice in this moment?"
The ego part of ourselves will seek to keep us frustrated, fearful, angry, and resentful for the sake of keeping us "safe" from future experiences that don't feel good, however, it's really important to ask these questions.
This is ultimately how we begin liberating ourselves out of our challenges and limitations that have run theme in our lives.
Beautiful friend, if you want to live your most soul aligned journey — and experience more peace, confidence, and embrace your "creative" nature as a part of the Divine... which you are, you need to understand your human being nature.
You need to know how your mind – this tool – operates, so you can use it to your advantage – to back to LOVE, back to TRUTH... so you can start to feel more alive, more expansive.
I speak more about how my experience with Human Design in particular and how it can help us know more deeply about ourselves in a recent interview on Business Success with Human Design with Nancy Okeefe. LISTEN HERE >>
As always, relax in the knowing.
If you're a part of my sacred community (if not, join here and receive my free Empowered Lifeview™ gift set!), I recently asked you about your top spiritual and mindset blocks. Because I love being of service to all heart-centered women on their spiritual and life path, it means so much to hear directly from you.
Thank you and I heard you. One of the top blocks expressed was "I struggle with self-worth, confidence, and fully accepting yourself”. Does this sound like you?
Below I share tips to help you release the blocks that hold you back the most when it comes to confidence, so you can access your true magnificence and create more joy in your life.
Beautiful friend, your true power begins with two things — mastering your mind/thoughts/beliefs and understanding your spiritual and life path.
This is what leads to healing any blocks around self-worth, confidence, and self-acceptance.
I believe that you being here now is a sign that you can relate to the women I work and co-create with. And I'm so happy you're here!
My friend, in one of my soul mails, I shared 3 tips to up level your confidence. They were:
1.Accept your role as being the one to lift yourself up.
2.You are not missing anything.
3.You have so much innate power and capability, it would blow your mind.
And now, I’ve got 3 more for you!
3 confidence boosting tips to empower you to create more joy:
(1) Embrace an Empowered Lifeview™ when it comes to your self-talk.
The way you “wake up” your innate potential, feel worthy, confident, and safe to be yourself begins by the way you speak to yourself.
When you speak to yourself in a certain way, you are impacting all areas of yourself and your entire mind, body, spirit responds.
This is one reason why “I am” statements are so powerful.
When you say, “I am not confident.” “I am not capable of doing this or getting through this.” You are setting the stage for everything in your life to unfold to prove that statement correct.
When you say, “I am capable of getting through this” and other positive statements, you set the stage for that to unfold for you.
(2) Practice interrupting negative thoughts that drain your confidence.
Question all thoughts that make you feel less-than — I reflect to The Work with Byron Katie, asking, “is it true and can I absolutely know it is true?” Most disempowering thoughts come through the conditioning you receive earlier in your life. It’s worth questioning and then repeating a positive affirmation instead.
(3) Celebrate your wins!
Praise yourself for all the things you’re great at as much as possible. It’s like giving yourself regular gifts of gratitude and it has a powerful impact on your mind, body, and spirit. Check out Mel Robin’s High Five Method as a start.
Beautiful friend, if you want a quick boost in confidence and a path to reconnect with your soul and life purpose, I'd love to serve you in a Soul Purpose Session. You can learn more and book your session here >>
3 tips to up level your confidence
Life works in funny ways. It often guides you toward paths that push your boundaries, pull you out the comfort of your shell, and call you to climb higher than you believe is possible.
Life has a way of putting people, events, and circumstances along your path to make you stop and question yourself, your life, and what’s next. And… it can shake your confidence.
But here’s what I’ve learned, there is a divine reason and purpose why. It is to uplift and uplevel you to reach within and realize or awaken to a deep soul truth — that you are the leader of this epic journey called “life”.
If you want powerful, unweaving confidence, this article is for you.
3 Tips to Up level Your Confidence and begin healing your blocks around self-worth and self-acceptance.
It might be dormant within you, waiting for you to tap into it. And you begin to do so by the way you speak to yourself. When you set the stage to be the leader to uplift yourself, know you’re missing NOTHING, and you tap into your innate power, your self-confidence in going to start to rise. You are going to awaken that unlimited potential that is lying dormant within you.